w.haolusi.com How others treat me is my cause and effect; How I treat others is my cultivation. Too much calculation leads to more losses; Sincerity towards others and taking a step back often leads to a faster pace 1. I am me, I am like a sugarcane straight but with a sweet heart that won't beat around the bush. One, one, two, two, one. Accidentally, it may even hurt you. Although this kind of personality is hard to eat and can easily offend people, I still like this kind of self. I am not hypocritical or calculating others. My temper has driven away many people, but what remains are sincere and trustworthy people! Interacting with others, watering trees and roots! 2. The four realms of life: first, pain without words; The second is to laugh but not speak; The third is to be lost without losing; The fourth is to be surprised but not chaotic. 3. Maturity is a bright and unappealing radiance, a round and unappealing sound, a calm demeanor that no longer requires observing others, an atmosphere that finally stops appealing to others, a smile that ignores noise, a indifference that washes away extremism, a thick and unappealing height that can be seen far but not steep. 4. I have been told since childhood that I cannot drink raw water and cannot eat unwashed apples. However, apples washed with raw water can be eaten, which is the result of meeting the right person. 5. How others treat me is my cause and effect; How I treat others is my cultivation. Too much calculation leads to more losses; Being sincere and taking a step back often leads to a faster pace. 6. In fact, emotions are like washing and sunbathing dirty clothes, which naturally spreads. The sunshine is so good, why bother to live a good life? Every present, ten thousand beautiful futures are not worth a warm present. 7. Don't rely too much on others in this world. Because even your shadow will leave you in the dark. Relying on others will only gradually forget one's original appearance. 8. When alone, you don't have to worry or pretend to do anything you want or don't want to do anything. 9. The significance of hard work lies in the fact that in the future, when you look around, you will see all the people and things you like. 10. Every choice is a restart. Those who cannot defeat you will eventually make you stronger. 11. When you can't make a decision, let time help you decide. If you still can't make a decision, then make it first and then choose to make mistakes without leaving any regrets. 12. Sometimes a smile doesn't necessarily mean you're happy. But sometimes it only indicates that you are very strong. 13. Be good at your four states: strong in your bones, cultured in your words and actions, tolerant in your interactions, and kind in your heart. 14. Never wait lightly. Waiting is such a luxury. Cherish the pain that that person has brought you and enjoy the traces left by love. 15. Maturity is: being able to tolerate the imperfections of life and withstand the ups and downs of life. Imperfection is the normal bumpy road. Be calm about life and strive to improve yourself.