Tips：w.haolusi.com 1. Life is full of calculations, including yourself. 2. Wang Shuo: The purest relationship is a monetary relationship, and the most equal relationship is a contractual relationship. 3. What is even more terrifying than the gaze of the world is actually your own heart that cares about the gaze of the world. 4. Folk songs are very artistic, but small taverns are not cheap, just like if we don't work hard, we can't even afford to cultivate our emotions. 5. Complaining is not scary, what's scary is that after complaining, one still adopts a negative attitude, does not make changes, and continues to sink. 6. Behind everyone, there are hardships that others cannot experience, and in everyone's heart, there are difficulties that others cannot feel. 7. The order in which everyone meets in life appears is really important. Many people who meet at a different time will have different endings. 8. I haven't read so many books, and I don't know how to speak or be a good person. The only way to deal with things is for you to be good to me, and for me to be good to you as well. 9. Everyone may encounter particularly difficult stages, long or short, that make you feel hopeless and unable to see the light. However, indulging in complaining and suffering is useless. It is even more futile to feel sad and painful. Instead, it is better to tidy up one's mood, boost one's spirits, and face it with a high head and chest. Perhaps everything will turn dark and bright. 10. The clarity of water is not because it does not contain impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; The clarity of the heart is not due to the absence of distractions, but rather to a clear understanding of choices. 11. People cannot be idle. When they are idle, they will think too much, and when they are idle, their emotions will overflow. The saying goes, "there are too many pretentious things, emptiness, loneliness, and coldness" is all due to laziness and falling into idleness. 12. When you are troubled by a lack of talent, please stay grounded and persevere. The best solution to missing out on talent is to constantly make oneself better and stronger. 13. For the rest of my life, I will not argue or grab, not cause trouble or anger, not be humble or arrogant, remain silent and observe changes. It's better to underestimate people than to see them clearly. It's better to see things through than to see things lightly. 14. When you surpass others a little bit, they will envy you; When you surpass others by a large margin, they will envy you. So, if you want to get rid of others' jealousy, please choose to work harder. 15. Life not only requires learning to endure, but also learning to let go. Life is boiling water, whether hot or cold, as long as it is suitable for the temperature, life is taste, whether it is sour, sweet, bitter or spicy, as long as it is suitable for the taste, it is the best. 16. We pay too much attention to everything that happens in our daily lives, especially the details, which can increase our stress and mental tension. The only way to solve our inner troubles and delusions is to relax and let go. 17. Low quality diligence is nothing but creating a; I work very hard; The illusion of. Diligence is not about being relentless, but about effectively utilizing the time at hand; Effort is not simply burying oneself in hard work, but solving problems with wisdom. 18. Everyone's life has its own trajectory. Don't envy others for their worry free high salaries, you haven't seen the hard work they put in; Don't envy others for being so free and easy, you don't know how much comfort they give up for it. 19. If someone has caused you a lot of pain, don't endure it. Many people consider concession as tolerance, but the premise of tolerance is mutual understanding. Only because of being too tolerant, can one never turn over. Temper is a rare thing, but not at all. 20. Always believe in this: everything will change, no matter how much trauma you may suffer, how heavy your heart may be, or how poor you may be, you must persevere. The sun will rise even after setting, and unfortunate days will always come to an end. This has been the case in the past, and it will be the same in the future. 21. Money, do things well! No money, do a good job! Snakes don't know they're poisonous, people don't know they're wrong. Your kindness is like a candy to others, it's gone after eating. And your unhappiness, like a scar, will always exist. This is human nature! 22. The performance of life requires a hundred repetitions of practice in order to be truly beautiful. Life gives you some pain, just to tell you what it wants to teach you. If you can't learn it once, you will suffer once. If you can't learn it all the time, you will fall repeatedly in the same place. 23. The most ruthless thing is not people, but time; The most precious thing is not money, but emotions; The most terrifying thing is not heartbreak, but physical and mental incompleteness; The most comfortable place is not the hotel, but at home; The most unpleasant thing is not swearing, but being speechless; The most beautiful thing is not the future, but today. 24. Just because a person treats their pets well does not mean they are also good to others; Being righteous towards one's brothers does not mean being devoted to one's lover; Being filial to parents does not necessarily mean being gentle with one's wife. Many times, one thing can only represent one thing, and people always like to use too many associations to fill their expectations for another person. 25. In this world: those who don't know you are called passersby, those who don't harm you are called good people, those who don't let you go are called enemies, those who occasionally come to feel sorry for you are called friends, and those who don't abandon or leave are called relatives. And these people don't understand you, those who understand you are called lovers. Happiness is having someone who understands you; Warmth is having someone willing to accompany you. 26. What kind of person and what kind of words to say. Don't play the piano against cows, they can't understand and are also very annoying. Similarly, love should be given to those who cherish oneself, otherwise your love will be cheap and worthless. Speak only to those who understand, not everyone deserves your saliva. In short, one's own treasure is only given to those who understand it the most. 27. Don't be like a destitute, tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will understand that your grievances need to be digested by yourself, and your story doesn't have to be told to everyone. Only a few of you truly understand, and most people will stand in their own shoes and sneak a peek at your jokes. All you can do is hide the secret and become stronger step by step.