Tips：w.haolusi.com By carefully understanding these words, one is walking on the bright path of seeing the world with magnanimity and living life with ease! 1. Relying on others will never yield anything People can only seek help from themselves, and no one is reliable. There is no reliable person in the world, not even your parents and children can rely on, only you can rely on yourself. If you don't stand up and rely on others, you will always be a person without success. 2. Human snobbery is very normal In fact, interpersonal communication, interpersonal communication, and snobbery are the norm. Purely emphasizing morality and disregarding snobbery is a very abnormal behavior. Rare things are precious, so morality is absolutely precious. 3. Degree determines height Everyone's demeanor, knowledge, scope, and breadth of mind are different. To achieve great success and make great achievements, you need to cultivate your character, like the vast ocean. 4. Lonely enjoyment I'll tell you an experience: when it's quiet at night, when a person runs to a high mountain top or in a big desert, it's very peaceful, and their tears don't know how to flow down. This is not sadness or liking, it is an incredibly peaceful and comfortable feeling. Every part of the body naturally opens up, and the pain and troubles in the heart are gone. It's what the ancients called&quo; The night rain on the empty mountains is silent;. I only heard the sound of rain hitting the leaves in the empty mountain, nothing else. That is a lonely enjoyment, not something that money can buy. 5. Only by being ethereal can one be at ease If a person's thoughts and skills are not ethereal, then it's over. It's like taking a cup and using it as a boat in a small pit of water, never moving. Only with a lofty and ethereal realm can one fly freely in this world, in this universe, and achieve freedom. 6. Nothing will always be possessed Everyone hopes that everything good will not change. Like human emotions, we all hope that the river of love will never change; Age also hopes not to change, forever youthful, and so on. It can be seen that people are always so foolish! If we understand this truth and know that there is no unchanging thing in heaven and earth, change is of course, unchanging? There's no such thing! 7. Those who achieve great things must be adaptable “ Achievements are subject to change& hellip;… A great figure in history: a leader of first class wisdom who knows how to change next and leads others to follow suit, always standing at the forefront of change; The second person is adaptable, you change, I change, and I change accordingly; The third person is someone who, after their change, still stands still. When they walk over, he curses from behind:; Ge Laozi, you have become so fast that I haven't prepared for you before you change first& rdquo; 8. Constrain oneself with faith I have found that a person with thoughts and beliefs has completely different achievements. When a person has nothing to do with themselves, it is easy to start with failure. 9. The energy of life comes from; Quiet; Where does energy come from? It comes from static, from empty. Why do we have to sleep when we are busy until night? Because people also need to be static, it is not possible to not rest the mind& hellip;… Human life often forgets stillness and instead tries to consume itself with dynamics. 10. The harder it is, the slower it needs to be Sometimes when dealing with a complex and difficult matter, one cannot solve it for a long time, and suddenly their own thoughts say that doing so can solve the problem, which is the role of static. So when dealing with complex and difficult things, you must first calm down and not think about anything. The more you think about it, the more you turn your brain, all your nerves turn, and in the end, you either die or fall ill. 11. True cultivation is the cultivation of the heart in the mortal world True cultivation is not only on the mountains, nor in temples, but also in society. To live in practice and practice in life& hellip;… No matter what profession you engage in, you must integrate your cultivation into your work, face the realm of experience and practice, and cultivate your character and heart towards others& hellip;… Don't be afraid of encountering obstacles that go against your destiny. They can refine your character, elevate your level, and increase your wisdom. 12. A good mindset makes the world a better place Don't just consider yourself in everything, consider the other person. Only by removing selfishness, self-interest, and self love can you be at ease& hellip;… How you treat others, others will also treat you. Don't always blame others, don't always pick on their faults, don't always think about changing others, first adjust your mentality, cultivate your heart, and everything will turn according to your heart. 13. The so-called cultivation& mdash; Correct oneself If you embrace everything with a broad mind, you won't have anything that you can't understand. Everyone is good, everything is good, and everything is good. Being able to frequently identify one's own shortcomings and constantly eliminate self attachment is what cultivation is. Otherwise, what should one cultivate? 14. Reading is for being a person, not for making a living Why does a person need to read? The most correct answer in tradition is the four words of reading and understanding. To be reasonable, one must first understand the principles of being a person. What is the educational purpose of the Chinese nation and its people? Let's repeat it again: it's for the sake of&quo; Being a good person;, Not for the sake of&quo; Life;. 15. Interact more with people who benefit oneself Interact with people with mature personalities and reliable conduct to help you grow and be reliable in times of need. Interacting more with elderly people can provide a wealth of experience and knowledge. 16. Forget your own kindness, never forget the kindness of others “ Do not forget to give benefits and do not forget to receive favors;, These two sentences have had a profound impact on my life, both reflecting the spirit of Buddhism, Confucianism, and Taoism. Helping others and giving benefits to them, don't even remember it in your heart, just throw it away& ldquo; By grace;, Get some benefits from others, always remember. 17. Contentment is wealth As a person and in action, one should leave room for improvement. Don't take advantage of good things and advantages, as taking too much can lead to trouble; Those who are content are rich;. 18. To be a proper person Knowing one's own duties, as well as understanding time and situation, following fate after fulfilling one's duties, and being a person like this, is what makes one feel like a person. 19. Regular schedule is the key to a person's life The daily climate on the human body starts at 11 o'clock at night and lasts until 12 o'clock the next morning, with a yang energy; Afternoon belongs to Yin Qi. Many young people in the city lack sufficient yang energy& mdash; In the morning, I feel dizzy and have no energy at all; After taking a nap in the afternoon, my spirits gradually improved; As nightlife approaches, the spirit becomes better and better& mdash; This is all because Yin Qi is very strong&hellip& hellip; This is not called nightlife, it's ghost life, day and night are reversed. 20. The best friendship Chinese people talk about making friends; The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water;, Good friends are not casual friends, they don't come and go every day, they are usually very ordinary. But this does not mean that he is indifferent and ruthless, and when a friend encounters difficulties or falls ill, he comes. Usually it doesn't matter, maybe even if you look at it with your eyes and say hello, there is true enthusiasm. 21. Being atmospheric is the key to gaining popularity Young people should pay attention to one thing. If they want to pursue a career, they should know that; Cai Ju Ren San; The Truth of the Way& mdash; With all the money in your pocket, social relationships will be reduced, and there will be no&quo; True friends; And now& ldquo; When wealth is scattered, people gather;, Meng Changjun is like this. He scattered his money and solved the difficulties of others. Of course, his own money was gone, but he had many friends and interpersonal relationships. When faced with difficulties, he had friends to help. 22. The True Meaning of Dealing with the World Be strict with oneself. When blaming others for their mistakes, don't be as serious as you are towards yourself. Being a person like this reduces resentment towards superiors, colleagues, and subordinates. On the contrary, in an era of chaos, a society often demands more from others, less from oneself, and requires others to be particularly strict, making it easy to forgive oneself. 23. Life is just a fake and a reality Life is like a play. The play has already begun, and you have to continue acting, but you must know clearly and clearly that you are acting&hellip& hellip; You need to play your role well, but don't pretend to be serious. In fact, the world is not our hometown, and all beings are just passing by in a hurry. What is there to cling to, what is there to care about, and what can be done with just a few words? What if we take a step back? 24. Swallow this breath There is a simple way, if you do it, it will be useful for you. When you are about to lose your temper, do qigong quickly, open your mouth, take a breath first, then take a breath through your nose, swallow it, and then decide whether to lose your temper& hellip;… That's really frustrating! When life is full of anger, there is always a breath, not a lie. 25. Not working with good friends Some people can be classmates, it's good to be friends when they are young, but they can't follow the same path as them and may not necessarily work together. If you have a career that you consider to be good friends and work together, often your friends become enemies later on, which is not cost-effective.