w.haolusi.com 1. The most important thing for adults to get along well is not to demand others based on their own lifestyle. 2. You will understand sooner or later that Congee in the morning is better than wine in the night, and those who cheat you will say that they love you. 3. There is no shortage of kind people in this world, what is lacking is those who remain kind even after experiencing setbacks, setbacks, and betrayals. 4. Smile and silence are two effective weapons: a smile can solve many problems, and silence can avoid many problems. 5. Don't let your kindness become a flaw in your interpersonal skills. The prerequisite for living a good life is not to disappoint yourself first. 6. Every place we want to go has a particularly difficult path to take. This journey may make us feel lost, painful, and even hopeless. But we choose to continue moving forward because there are always people and things worth our love deeply. 7. All misunderstandings in this world come from lack of understanding, all contradictions come from lack of communication, and all errors come from distrust. 8. All affectation and coercion, roaring and repression, anger and resentment, all stem from two reasons: either lack of money or lack of love. 9. The significance of hard work lies not in achieving great success, but in making ordinary days live better than before. 10. Human heart is difficult to guess, even if sometimes you are concerned about others' feelings, it is not necessarily that others will be satisfied, but rather that you think too much. 11. When people are young, they hope that their entire life will be spent playing music, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry, and wine. But ultimately, we can't escape from firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. 12. Cinderella was originally a wealthy daughter, and the ugly duckling was originally a white swan. There is no possibility in this world that something bad can completely become beautiful. 13. Later on, I realized that speaking different words to different people and displaying different attitudes is a very valuable ability. Not hypocrisy. 14. Don't believe in the domineering CEO in romantic novels who loves to be mentally disabled. Once you enter society, you will know that without intelligence and emotional intelligence, others are too lazy to talk to you. 15. If you learn more skills, just say less about seeking help. I always believe in a saying: Only when I am strong enough, can I not be trampled upon by others. 16. There is no unfounded initiative to chat with you, nor is there no unfounded refusal to reply to your messages. Whether you like it or not, others are quite obvious. 17. Current situation of life: I have wanted to live a life similar to the Eight Precepts, but I am under the pressure of Wukong. However, I only have the ability of Sha Monk and can occasionally hear Tang Monk's nagging. 18. Kindness is not scary, what's scary is giving to the wrong person. In this world, if you don't help someone, they will be grateful. If you don't take it seriously, they will be interested in you. 19. Mistakenly treating indulgence as carefree, decadence as freedom, and avoiding responsibility as a pursuit of self-worth are just lazy and afraid of hardship. There are not so many good reasons. 20. Maturity is not being sharpened to become worldly wise and practical. True maturity is the stability and grandeur that need not be publicized, the calmness and tranquility that have been washed away. 21. We always think of the warm breeze in winter, miss the white snow under the scorching sun, and always throw away what we can't get when we struggle for it. 22. When someone pays a little attention to you, you are open and honest with them. When you think it's frank, it's actually lonely. After chatting with you for a few days, you like them. When you think it's love, it's actually childish. 23. Some things, don't really see them clearly, see them clearly, it hurts; Some people, you really don't understand, understand, hurt. In life, it's hard to be confused. If you take things too seriously, you will only suffer and tire yourself. 24. There is no need to crave the understanding and recognition of others in life, because others do not have these obligations either. Live your life quietly, if your heart doesn't move, the wind is helpless. If you don't hurt, time will be safe. Everything that happens in life cannot be possessed, only experienced. Those who are well aware of this will understand: it doesn't matter losing, it's just passing through; It doesn't matter if you fail, it's just experience. 26. People allow a stranger to prosper, but cannot tolerate a promotion from someone around them. Because there are conflicts of contrast and interests among people at the same level, and there are no such issues with strangers. The more you do right, the more people behind your back say about you. The better you live, the more people will mock you behind your back. The stronger you become, the more people will attack you from behind. The more beautiful you are, the more people will mock you behind your back. 28. Giving with all one's heart and lungs may not necessarily result in genuine care. A kind and well intentioned support may not necessarily earn the touch and respect of others. In this world, human hearts are unpredictable, and no one can see through the surface disguise. 29. What you lack is money. Don't talk about wood conquering water, water conquering soil, soil conquering fire, fire conquering gold. I tell you, as long as you are poor, everything will conquer you. Only by working hard to earn money can you conquer the sky, the earth, and life. 30. There is no perfect thing, no perfect person, the key is to know exactly what you want. Getting what you want will definitely result in losing another part. If you want everything, you will only get nothing. 31. Don't say anything more. If we had started over ten thousand times, we would still have regrets. Even if we avoided the fire pit, we would have fallen into the mud pit; Even if you embrace the stove, you will still get burned. Living a good life now is more important than anything else! 32. Life is a process of constantly satisfying desires. If not satisfied, it will be painful, and if satisfied, it will be boring. Human desire is like a stretched rubber band, unable to find a place to hang on, it will bounce back and hit itself. 33. Hold the greatest hope, make the greatest effort, prepare for the worst, and maintain the best mentality. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, and accept what becomes a fact. The sun is always new, and every day is a beautiful day. 34. In the blink of an eye, we are no longer young, putting aside our stubbornness, throwing away our temper, and no longer easily hurting or ignoring the people around us. Because we know that life is already halfway through, cherish what should be cherished, and stay away from what should be. 35. There will always be people who say hello, and there will also be people who say you are not good, but as long as you have a clear conscience in your behavior and actions, there is no need to cling to the judgment of others. No need to look at others in the eyes, no need to constantly please them, as it will make one's life more tiring. In real society, no matter how sincere you are, when you encounter someone who doubts you, you are a lie; No matter how simple you may be, when encountering complex people, you are always scheming; No matter how professional you are, when you meet someone who doesn't understand you, you are nothing. 37. Be a person with inner sunshine, not sad, not anxious, strong, upward, close to the sunshine, and become a better version of yourself. You don't need too much praise from others, because you know how good you are. The strength of the heart is always greater than the superficiality of the appearance. 38. Cherish the happiness around you, appreciate what you have, let go of what you can't carry, take it lightly when you can't afford to hurt, let go of what you can't think of, and soothe what you can't hate. Life is inherently not easy, and life is not long. Why bother with unnecessary troubles, trample on oneself, and harm time. 39. People can be in chaos, but their hearts cannot be dirty. They can seek rewards for things, and do not be overly concerned about others. Those who can tolerate it will not be hurt, those who can suffer losses will not be able to suffer. Some people owe you something, and others will compensate you. What you lose will be returned to you by heaven. 40. The hardships of life, I always want to talk about them, not because there is an extra comfort, but because there are more people who speak right and wrong; When I feel down, I always want to share it with others. It's not because I have an extra understanding, but because I have a group of people who watch jokes. In this world, there are more people who listen to stories, but fewer who understand them. 41. The majority of conflicts between people stem from overestimating one's position in the other person's heart, treating strangers as acquaintances, acquaintances as friends, friends as relatives, lovers as lovers, and treating loved ones as outsiders. Crossing boundaries and making the other person uncomfortable is a small matter, but ultimately it is ourselves who are disappointed. 42. Life doesn't have so many birds, birds, and swallows. What is a good life and what is a good companion? It's just that when you're hungry, I'll give you something to eat, when you're thirsty, I'll give you something to drink, when you're cold, I'll cover you with a blanket, when you're sick, I'll give you medicine. Even if you're upset, I can scold him a few times. Being down-to-earth is stronger than anything else. 43. Appreciate the surrounding things with a beautiful heart; Treat everyone with a sincere heart; With a responsible heart, do your duties well; With a humble heart, reflect on one's mistakes; With a broad heart, tolerate those who hurt you; Treat what you have with a sincere heart; Accept the facts that have happened with a calm heart; With a relaxed heart, face the most difficult abandonment; With a grateful heart, thank everyone. We spent two years learning to speak, but it took sixty years to learn to shut up. Most of the time, the more we talk, the farther apart we are from each other, and the more conflicts we have. In communication, most people are always eager to express themselves, speak quickly, but do not understand the other person at all. Two years of learning to speak, a lifetime of learning to shut up. Understand or not, don't say much. Calm down and speak slowly. If there's really nothing to say, don't say anything.