A sobering quote from the human world suitable for boys 1. Getting started is better than doing nothing well. 2. Don't be greedy for meaningless people or things, how can you free up your hand carrying garbage to receive gifts. 3. If you want to live happily, don't argue with fools, don't reason with fools, don't argue with people with different values, and don't try to wake up someone who pretends to sleep. 4. When you wonder why he treats you suddenly, he may be going through fire and water for another person. 5. You don't need to prick people, but you must have thorns on your body. Don't be a cruel villain, but never be an old man who silently smiles and dedicates himself in the corner. 6. I feel particularly good when I am busy, feeling that I have lived up to the makeup I put on in the morning, the two bowls of rice I had at noon, and the sleep I sacrificed at night. Therefore, I must move forward. 7. When life is low, do more for yourself. Reading, running, and traveling, the more difficult times are, the more you need to support yourself. 8. The busier you are, the more you need to be careful of the bits and pieces of life. Don't be consumed by unnecessary personnel, don't roll in the mud of life, and always be clear about what is most important to yourself and who is the person who is important to you. 9. If you don't have money, you can earn more. If you break up, you can talk about it. If it doesn't work out, you can quit. Enjoy it in a timely manner, stop losses in a timely manner, life is short, and maintain a high level. 10. There are many things in life, just like wisdom teeth. The best solution is to unplug it. Instead of enduring. 11. You always feel like you can't let go of someone, that's not necessarily love, it's just persistence and memories. 12. If someone has hurt you, you can forgive them, but don't trust them easily anymore. Forgiveness is letting oneself go, while blind trust will only give him another chance to hurt you. 13. Don't casually reveal your feelings to others. You should know that the joys and sorrows between people are actually not interconnected. Your full words are just a story to others. 14. You must give yourself a sense of security. If money can give you a sense of security, then work hard to make money. If being loved can give you a sense of security, then strive to become someone worth being loved. 15. If you even need someone to persuade you to work and earn money, to be watched, coaxed, encouraged, and advised not to do it, then you should be poor. This is not chicken soup, it's reality. 16. Rather than caring about the betrayal and wrongdoing of others, it is better to manage one's own dignity and beauty. 17. When feeling sad, listen less to sad songs. When feeling depressed, think less about the past. When hungry, eat more. When tired, go to bed early. If you can't keep it, think more. Don't think too much, you will be happier. 18. I used to like those who looked good, but now I like those who have a stable relationship. The more people I have met, the more I know who I truly want to be with. The more places you have visited, the more you know where you want to go back. 19. Don't accept all the grievances, don't always grit your teeth in the dark and show off alone, don't be afraid to reject others, don't be afraid to trouble others, don't let your kindness hurt yourself. 20. Time exposes lies, changes distance, and sees through people's hearts. Time is just a quack who claims to be able to cure all kinds of diseases. 21. Pick up some things that should be picked up, and discard some things that should be discarded. Because only when the things that should have ended are the things that should have started. 22. There are as many hardships in life as there are troubles, judging right from wrong, judging people's length, judging people's height, some people disdain, some complain, this is an unfair world, and it is also an uneasy soul. Some people lose, while others win. 23. Living tiredly is because there is something extra in the heart, and it's the same as having enough to eat. 24. Some people treat you well because you treat them well, while others treat you well because they understand your kindness 25. Having seen many people clearly, one cannot casually expose them. Hating many people, one cannot easily turn their back on them. Sometimes life forces oneself to become obedient and not be surprised by their likes and dislikes. No matter how painful things you experience, they will gradually forget in the end because nothing can rival time. 27. A person's maturity is not reflected in how much achievement they have achieved, but in the face of those disliked people and things, they do not cater or resist, only smile calmly at them. When the inner world can accommodate many things that one does not like, it is called aura. 28. Career is like digging a well. Don't dig east or west, as the result is nothing flowing out! I would rather dig a well every ten years than ten pits every year. Only by persevering can we succeed! 29. Time is ruthless, it will make the apologies you owe unaffordable, and also make many apologies too late. 30. You must live a good life and work hard to earn money. Then you will find that when life shines brightly, there is no time to complain, be sentimental, worry about gains and losses, and cling to old relationships.