Buddhist Zen language for purifying the soul 1. When there are many people, keep your mouth shut. Talking too much, making too many mistakes, causing too much trouble for oneself; When people are young, control your heart! Delusions, delusions, and pains are common, causing trouble for oneself. Guard your mouth in groups, and guard your heart in solitude. To cultivate oneself, it is important to have a clear mind, and to be cautious in speaking when dealing with others. 2. People, let alone whether they are suitable or not, as long as they are suitable. A one dollar lighter can also light a thousand dollar cigarette. A table of dishes worth tens of thousands of yuan still requires two yuan of salt. Don't wait to lose, only then will you know how to cherish. 3. On the road of life, one must be bold, careful, and have a thick skin. If you get angry or float like a fairy over someone else's words, your heart is actually following their words. It is foolish to entrust one's own happiness to someone else's casual words. 4. When you follow fate, everything will go smoothly. When you have nothing to ask for, you will have everything. 5. Open different windows, you will see different scenery, have different perspectives, and reap different moods. A person lives a lifetime, and what you can accept, face, tolerate, understand, and let go is your true world. So, the size of your heart determines the size of your world. 6. How you treat others, they will treat you the same way. Don't always blame others, don't always pick on their faults, see others as not pleasing, don't always want to change others, first adjust your mentality, cultivate your heart, everything will turn according to your heart. 7. Being together and falling is life, day and night are days. Life is like a dream, ignoring everything, ignoring past pains, half reality, half illusion, clear or hazy, everything is the best arrangement. 8. Happiness is not about having more, but about caring less. People need to see themselves clearly. Sometimes, what cannot be overcome is not a hurdle, but a obsession in the heart. 9. If you don't blindly compare yourself with others, you will feel at ease. If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain. If you constantly demand yourself, you will live comfortably. Not always nitpicking will make it easy for oneself. 10. A little more indifference leads to a little more happiness in life. The troubles of life come from forgetting our own things, meddling in the affairs of others, and worrying about the affairs of heaven. It's easy to be relaxed and at ease: take care of your own affairs, don't interfere with others, and don't worry about the affairs of the heavens. 11. The things in the world are like this: what should come naturally comes, what should not come is useless, and seeking is useless. Destiny, no pushing, no fate, no seeking. Coming, welcome, going, watching. Everything follows fate and goes with the flow. 12. Life is like a road, one must have patience. To live a happy life, one must learn to follow fate, not force oneself to achieve something, not persist in losing something, remain calm and relaxed, and be content with the situation. Worries are like the darkness in the heart. Only by lighting up the light of fate can we dispel the darkness and illuminate life. 13. Everyone yearns for perfection, but in all likelihood, they will not be satisfied. Life is like half a cup of water, it's hard to have a perfect time. For the same half cup of water, some people see the missing half, while others see the owning half. The secret to happiness and joy is to see the half you have and enjoy the half you already have. 14. When the heart is filled with peace, everywhere is equally joyful and free; When the heart is filled with wisdom, every flower and grass reveals the Dharma body. If you can let go of your persistence and pickiness, then everything you meet will be beautiful. 15. In life, we don't actually need too much. As long as we live healthily, have sincere love, and can support ourselves, it can also be considered a form of wealth. Don't think about what you're unhappy about, and don't insist on what you can't get. Life is inherently full of hardships and joys, so it's hard for oneself to have nothing to do. Why bother! 16. If a door is closed last day, it will inevitably open another window for you. If you lose something, you will inevitably receive another gift elsewhere. The key is to have an optimistic attitude and believe that there will be gains when there is loss. Be willing to give up and treat your losses correctly, because loss can be a blessing in life, heralding another gain for you. A big house is big, a small house is small, reluctant to part. 17. Some things can only be accepted when they happen, some people can only let go when they lose, and some paths cannot be turned back when they choose. Life is like this helplessness. 18. The running of life depends not on who starts first, but on the perseverance along the way. If you give up halfway, all your previous efforts will be in vain. Only by persisting in your efforts can you achieve the results you want! 19. The best way to accept an unchangeable fact is to learn to say to yourself:; Forget it;. Even if it's a big deal, you have to say to yourself:; It's okay, everything will pass;. Because no matter how much and how long it rains, it will always be sunny. Nature is like this, and life is like this! 20. It is impossible for everyone to like you, nor can anyone dislike you; It is impossible for everyone to admire you, nor can anyone slander you. Just don't be tempted by yourself. Without a calm heart, there can be no peaceful place. The heart is pure, and everything is pure; My heart is at ease, everything is at ease.