Tips：w.haolusi.com Life insights that instantly awaken oneself 1. All unhappiness, to put it simply, is not as good as we wish. Life teaches us to be self aware of warmth and coldness, and we must also learn to take good care of ourselves. 2. Life is not afraid of a low starting point, but afraid of not pursuing it; Not afraid of walking slowly, afraid of taking the wrong path; I'm not afraid of not getting what I want, but I'm afraid I can't figure it out. It's better to be good at oneself than to envy others. 3. A person's life is like this, desire is like sand in their hands, the tighter they hold it, the more they lose. Learn to let go, be willing to give up, in order to truly gain. Gains and losses are only relative; When you think you have it, you may be losing it; When feeling lost, perhaps gaining. If you have no intention of gaining, it doesn't matter what you lose. 4. A person who speaks well often has a cold heart; People who speak ill often have a kind heart. Those who say you are not good in person are true friends; Those who speak ill of you behind your back are the ones who see blood in their swords. It's not scary to offend someone in front of you, but it's the most deadly thing to offend someone unconsciously. So in life, one should not only look at the front, but also at the back to understand the whole picture. 5. When others compliment you, it's okay to secretly be happy, but don't take it seriously, because it's likely to be a way to coax you; When others criticize you, it's okay to be a little unhappy, but don't get angry because it's very likely true. 6. Being a person must have a calm heart, shallow envy, boring comparison, and clumsy imitation, which will only make oneself live in the shadow of others all day long. We should recognize ourselves, find our own place, follow our own path, and live our own life. 7. Many relationships are not good old or new, but after experiencing some things together, you truly feel that the other person is good. This is the relationship that is worth taking seriously and caring about. 8. No matter how good yesterday was, I couldn't walk back; No matter how difficult it may be tomorrow, we must continue with our feet raised. No one can trouble you unless you use the words and actions of others to trouble yourself; There is nothing you cannot let go of, unless you are unwilling to do so yourself. 9. No matter how you live, there will always be people whispering to you behind your back. Laughing off without arguing or caring is actually the best form of contempt. 10. Everyone is like this, dealing with other people's affairs always tackles the main problem with a big axe, but it's their turn to immerse themselves in the details and refuse to let go& mdash;— August Chang'an 11. On the road of life, you must be bold, careful, and have a thick skin. If you get angry or float like a fairy for someone else's words, your heart is actually following their words. It is foolish to entrust your happiness to someone else's casual words. 12. Don't entangle yourself in an awkward matter for too long. Entangled for a long time, you will be annoyed, painful, annoyed, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not at odds with things, but with yourself. No matter how uncomfortable you may be, you must learn to step back.