The Buddhist Zen Language of Understanding Life 1. In everyone's personality, there are certain parts that are unacceptable, even the most beautiful person is the same. So don't be harsh on others, and don't blame yourself. 2. In the end, things in the world may not go as planned, and forcing them will not be sweet. What we can do is to do our best and do our best to be good for ourselves. In most cases, this is the case, with no regrets or regrets. 3. Things cannot be done too thoroughly, and it is difficult to move forward or backward if they are too extreme; Emotion cannot be trapped too deeply, it is difficult to extricate oneself if it is too deep; Profit should not be taken too seriously, as it makes it difficult to have clear aspirations; People cannot be too fake, it is difficult to communicate with others if they are fake; The world cannot be seen too clearly, it is difficult to act once it is clear. 4. When you are proud, take it lightly; when you are discouraged, take it easy. There are many things in life that can be put down. Only when it can be placed can it be picked up. Be more tolerant, be more magnanimous, wave your hand, smile, and all unhappiness will become a thing of the past. 5. Everyone has their own ideas, methods, and ways of living. Different ideas and practices lead to different ways of living. We don't need to interfere with others, influence them, or even attack them. He is good, not jealous, not vengeful; He is not good, not to strike or despise. Everyone has self-esteem, everyone has hardships, there is no one in life who doesn't want to live better and go smoother. Learning to understand, respect, and help will make life better and more beautiful. 6. Destined, not rejected, not destined, not extravagant. Coming, welcome, going, farewell. Let fate remain unchanged, let it remain unchanged. Be at ease and at ease. 7. No one is perfect, nothing is perfect. Some petty people, you don't have to worry about it, it will get annoying; There are some complicated matters that you don't need to care about, caring about them can be tiring; The world is big, and people's hearts are mixed. How can we not encounter villains? The world of mortals is deep and fleeting, how can one not be troubled by troubles? Think less, watch less, and be more happy. 8. Life is difficult to satisfy, life is difficult to achieve, friends are not as good as high or low, we should be sincere with each other; Dressing is not inferior to luxury, it should fit and be appropriate; Houses should be comfortable and warm, no matter their size; Cars are not inferior to fame, they must have a safe journey; Appearance is not as beautiful or ugly, one should have a balanced mindset; The body is not fat or thin, it should be healthy and disease-free; Wealth is not worth having, one should be frugal and reasonable; Life is not about luxury, it's about being content and always having fun. 9. Smart people always look forward; A wise person looks backwards in everything; A wise person is one who overcomes others; A wise person is one who overcomes oneself. 10. Don't leave regrets for your own life, and don't leave regrets for someone else's life just because of yourself. Whether there is a next life or not, this life is definitely the only one. 11. Rather than avoiding reality, it's better to smile at life. There are many hurdles in life, and once you have crossed them, they are the hurdles. Some things make us helpless, some things make us helpless, and some things make us speechless. No matter what difficulties we encounter, whether we can survive depends on our confidence in ourselves. 12. If the heart has nothing to seek, it will not be bound by all things; The mind is free from distractions, and sitting and walking are both calm, thus giving birth to elegance. 13. Good friends are won with good qualities; A good reputation is earned through good cultivation. 14. There is always a cycle of causality, where effort and gain are closely related, and sowing and harvesting are inseparable. Don't think that one day pie will fall from the sky! 15. In this world, the person who is appreciated and cherished by others, the person who is given back and favored by heaven, must be the one who is reliable and kind enough. 16. Having a clear conscience is kind-hearted. Helping others becomes a habit, doing oneself well. It belongs to you and has always been there. Luck and good fortune come and go! 17. Sincere people will meet sincere people; A reliable person will meet a reliable person. 18. People who always try to take advantage of others and deceive others will be seen through sooner or later, making them distant! In this lifetime, everyone is the same. Whatever kind of communication we want, we must first become what kind of ourselves! 19. Plant the cause and bear fruit; What is the cause and what is the result. You must be honest with others in order to earn their sincerity; You always have a hollow head and no one is willing to give you their heart! 20. When people need it, extending a helping hand may not necessarily be remembered by others, but this kind of helping hand forms a habit, and one will definitely meet someone who knows how to be grateful. Even if we are on the way forward and someone cherishes this kindness, we have gained a sincere affection! In one's lifetime, it is customary to be good at oneself. As for whether there is a reward or not, everything is entrusted to the will of heaven!